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I Cried with My Babies

He turned purple in an instant.

A confused whimper roared into a full on scream.

He shook and tried to curl up into a ball.

I held his little arms and told him it would be okay, as tears rolled down my cheeks and soaked my mask.

I knew I couldn’t take away his pain.

Even worse, I let it happen to him.

Finally, I could pick him up as they disposed of their needles.

I scooped him in my arms and held him close.

I whispered my apologies and reassurances as his sobs slowly subsided.

I asked how many parents cried as hard as the child and the nurse nodded,

“I cried with my babies.”

I didn’t expect such a visceral reaction.

Just a few days before, my aunt asked me if I felt distressed when my baby cried.

“No, not really, because I know I can usually comfort him and meet his needs.”

Well, now I knew distress.

I could comfort him afterwards, but that didn’t take away the pain he felt.

I would’ve taken the shots for him, but it doesn’t work that way.

And it wasn’t that way at Calvary.

The pain and sorrow of the world was on His shoulders.

He bore in His body the weight of sin.

Now I understand, just a little bit more, of the Father’s heart.

He watched as His Beloved Son suffered.

But He could not comfort Him.

While I could hold my son close and soothe him,

God the Father had to turn away from His Son’s distress.

The ground trembled and shook and tore apart.

I think that was a reflection of His heart.

This agony was endured by the Son and the Father,

And it was done for me.

Such love and sacrifice humbles and rejoices my heart.

Christ’s death on the cross means life for me.

Because of His distress, I will be comforted forever.

Hallelujah, what a Savior.

In His Arms

We shouldn’t have been playing hide and seek.

It was my grandpa’s funeral, after all.

But we were kids, and it was raining outside.

As I ran up the red carpeted steps to the choir loft,

a picture stopped me in my tracks.

It was a print of a long-haired man in a robe and sandals.

He had a child balanced on his knee.

His arm was stretched out to other children gathered near him.

Huh. That must be Jesus.

I didn’t think too much more as I heard my cousin shouting:

Ready or Not! Here I come!

But the image came back in my mind again, some 20 years later.

I read in Mark – two chapters in a row – where Jesus interacts with children.

In both instances, He takes them in His arms.

The picture from the church came back to me.

The child perched on His knee.

I realize what the artist was trying to convey:

A tender closeness between the Savior and the children.

But as I read how He took them in His arms,

The picture seemed inadequate.

The child shouldn’t be balancing on His knee.

He should be wrapped in the Savior’s embrace.

No fear of falling.

No fear of being displaced by someone else.

Wrapped tightly and securely by the arms of Love.

Even though I’ve outgrown games of hide-and-seek at funerals,

I haven’t outgrown that need to be held.

I never will outgrow it.

The eternal God is your dwelling place, and underneath are the everlasting arms.
Deuteronomy 33:27

When the world is so volatile and spinning out of control,

I know that the unchanging, eternal God is my refuge,

And He’s holding me in His arms.

I won’t fall.

I won’t be replaced.

I am securely held by my Loving Savior.

Are you hanging out on His knee – keeping yourself at arms length?

Or have you burrowed close to His chest, like a child seeking comfort?

Don’t squirm away and try to face the cold world on your own.

Fall into His embrace.

He will hold you, and you will be safe in Him.

This blog post digs deeper and gets into the meat of the word Hope, which is in the title of Persevere: Comfort and Hope for Dark Days. Check out the introductory post here, and the previous posts about the words persevere and comfort.

“Is she going to make it?”

“I hope so.”

How do you take that response?

Will she? Or Won’t she?

Is it said brightly, or grimly?

With a strong voice, or a shaky one?

Either way, I hope so seems like a cup of positivity, with a spoonful of doubt.

But that’s not how it’s always been.

You see, language changes.

Merriam Webster Dictionary gives a shout out to what the word hope used to mean:

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/hope

Archaic. That’s old.

It means the word is no longer is used as “trust”.

Instead, we use it to express a wish or desire that we know may not come to pass.

I hope so.

So how does the Bible talk about hope?

The word used is ἐλπίς (elpis).

From the Greek Strong’s Dictionary, it means to anticipate, usually with pleasure… expectation or confidence.

ἐλπίς is mentioned over 54 times in the New Testament.

You can find each one yourself by reading all the way through… or by downloading a study app like Olive Tree.

To really get a feel for what hope means in the Bible, you should find all the verses that mention hope.

Spend time reading and taking notes about how the word is used in each verse.

Here’s a place to start:

For whatever was written in earlier times was written for our instruction, so that through perseverance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.
Romans 15:4

This is where it all comes together.

The Scripture is written for us.

As we persevere through our painful situations, we are encouraged by reading the Scriptures. The Scriptures have amazing accounts of men and women who cried out to God in their desperation… and He answered them.

When they were too weak to save themselves, He was mighty.

He came through for them.

That’s our expectation.

As we read the Scriptures and get to know the awesome character of God,

We can have confidence that He will also answer us.

Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that you will abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Romans 15:13

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Comfort

This blog post digs deeper and gets into the meat of the word Comfort, which is in the title of Persevere: Comfort and Hope for Dark Days. Check out the introductory post here and the previous post about the word persevere.

Comfort

Come here. I just want to hold you.
  
 I often hear those words when I am upset.
 Angry, distraught, frustrated, or sad.
 Whether my emotions are just beginning to show, 
 or they have already tumbled as a torrent,
 My husband calls me to his side:
  
 Come here. I just want to hold you.
  
 Outstretched arms and eyes of love.
 I crumple into his embrace.
  
 He doesn’t say anything at first.
 His heart soaks up my tears.
  
 When the time is right, he speaks.
 He helps me sort through my thoughts.
  
 Listening. 
 Asking questions. 
 Gently inviting me to share.
  
 When he has held me, and we have spoken,
 I am comforted.

This is a precious little picture that I get to see often.

Because as my husband comforts me,

My Heavenly Father is working through him.

God always works like that.

Not just through my husband,

He’s done it through other people, too.

Someone calls to ask about a matter she knows is bothering me.

A friend seeks me out to ask me how I’m doing.

They listen.

They ask questions.

They speak truth to my soul.

This is comfort.

This is encouragement.

Those two words go hand-in-hand.

They mean to give strength.

To hearten.

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4

This word comfort is translated from the Greek παρακαλέω (parakaleo) ¹

It means to call near, or call alongside.

Think of it!

God is calling you to His side.

He’s like my loving husband:

Come here. I just want to hold you.

He’s like my faithful friend:

Just thought I’d call to see how you were doing.

That’s heartening.

That’s strengthening.

To know you are loved and cared for.

You are comforted in all your affliction…

So that you can comfort those in any affliction.

So how do you do it?

How do you give comfort to someone?

Well… call them alongside you.

Listen.

Ask questions.

And then, speak truth.

For whatever was written in earlier times was written for our instruction, so that through perseverance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.
Romans 15:4

The Scriptures were written to encourage.

That’s the same word as comfort.

Give strength.

Hearten.

Call alongside.

Soak in the Scriptures.

As you do, you’ll see all the times that God came through for each person.

And that will give you hope.

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Life is Hard

“You know what this is?”

I raised my head from the table where I had dramatically flopped just moments before.

My dad rubbed his index finger against his thumb.

“This is the world’s smallest violin playing ‘My heart bleeds for you!’”

He chuckled at himself until I rolled my eyes and started laughing, too.

This scenario played out a lot in my teenage years.

When I bemoaned some insurmountable difficulty at school or work that threatened to disrupt my otherwise blissful life, I was met with sympathy and a good dose of reality.

“You know what? Life is hard.”

Usually, the situation worked itself out.

It wasn’t fun, but I got over it.

Along the way I grew to understand that life is not easy, but it does go on.

And giving up isn’t an option.

But as I became an adult, I found that problems got bigger.

More complex.

Heartaches intensified.

Dilemmas didn’t resolve.

Decisions were made, regretted, and made again.

I saw friends and family walk through dark days.

And I did, too.

As the years went by, I felt it even more strongly:

No, life isn’t easy.

And giving up isn’t an option.

So how do we get through difficult situations?

For whatever was written in earlier times was written for our instruction, so that through perseverance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.
Romans 15:4

Perseverance.

Encouragement (Comfort).

Hope.

Throughout the next few blog posts, we’ll dig deeper and focus on these three key concepts from God’s word.